Sunday, March 7, 2010

The Spoken Words of Spirit--March 8, 2010

Relationships are a dance of souls and their interactions together. Some are duets of near perfection, but the majority are always a work in progress. Just like on the dance floor, your physical connections depend on balance. Without having a fair share of it, then what could be or should have been a situation of beauty, instead becomes testing. For many of you, the test may seem too great, while others just flow gently through the rhythmic swings that the universe is full of.

If we focus on personal relationships, Spirit will always tell you to diminish your partner's faults so that you can still see the beauty of what brought you together. This does not mean to turn a blind eye and be an enabler or co-dependent. One of the most profound things in life is that you your heart and head can always change what is not healthy for either of you. While we look for couples to iron out their differences, this is not done to the long-term detriment of your happiness. “Trust” is vital; as is compatibility. Your personal core values--when in the right spiritual balance--cannot be overlooked or compromised. There will be times when you struggle, along with times where you feel like you are floating with angels. Either way, it is part of your soul’s path to learn how to deal and cope with the things that will make you happiest. If there is a sense of guilt, shame or repugnancy, then it is fair to say that you need to evaluate what you are doing.

On the other hand, your relationship can improve in unfettered and happy ways when you step back and put into motion a belief that you can reacquire happiness. Where the happiness comes from, or what level is not important. It will begin with the value that you place on yourself. In other words, if you realize how special you are and that your feelings and emotions are not to be dismissed, then the direction you move towards will become rewarding. You, nor your relationship partner needs to be perfect. All you need is gentle respect for each other.

The world is going through a series of rebirthing situations. It creates tensions in your personal lives. It also means that by abiding by universal spiritual principles and precepts, then the problems you incur will be largely diminished. This is especially true when you are able to build on your relationship with God, Jesus and the entire array of beings in the Golden Light, which includes your loved ones. Today, we want you to do one thing a little differently if you are trying to work through some problems within any type of relationship. We prefer that you say one nice thing to the other person, but if that is still too difficult, say it to Spirit. Without changing your approach, nothing can be accomplished to your liking. Each one of you are empowering souls, guided by a divination of perfected energy from the heavens. Remember that you do not need to struggle because that was not the intended path given to you. Being happy is a right for you, not something that is abstract or available only to others. With deep love and respect, we leave you with these thoughts, as they are The Spoken Words of Spirit.
Tuesday, April 6, 2010, 7 - 9pm

An evening with Jim Fargiano and The Spoken Words of Spirit

A talk will be given on how Spirit and our loved ones interact and influence our lives on a daily basis. Conversation will touch on how his book, The Spoken Words of Spirit, was created. In addition, he will explain how Escaping Boundaries, the subliminal, relaxation, healing and meditation CD was co-created with Jessie Haynes, a very gifted singer/songwriter. Jim will answer general questions from the audience, and as long as time allows, he will be giving spot readings to whoever those on the other side lead him to.

Crowne Plaza Hotel
1730 North Ocean Avenue
Holtsville, NY 11742
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Mary said...

Relationships are a dance of souls and their interactions together.
I had this perfection once in my life. Our relation ship was a dance of our souls and their interactions and the deepest love ever together.
I sadly miss my soul mate friend.. Always will!

Life with my marriage partner has been compatible, comfortable, long lasting deep love, deep respect and caring
We are totally opposites and not soul mates.
I do see that....
Each one of us are empowering souls, guided by a divination of perfected energy from the heavens.
We built our lives on our relationship with God, and his gifts of our wonderful Children, Grand children, Great grand children.
Thank you Jim, my daily Angel, for this wonderful reading.
God Bless :-)**

Anonymous said...

I can't wait to come home and go for a reading. You keep my soul growing...ty

Diane said...

"Relationships are a dance of souls and their interactions together." What a perfect definition of the word relationships!

"The world is going through a series of rebirthing situations." We can see this everywhere, business and personal. Great message today Jim! Thank you, as always.

Jim Fargiano said...

Thank you. Sandy, you'll be back before you know.

Mary, I understand what you are saying, but keep in mind that Spirit often tells me that soul mates are overrated. This is because we travel in soul groups, so technically we have many soul mates. It's just a different spin on it, but I have firsthand experience with what you went through.

Diane, you continue to grow in great ways. Keep up the good work.