The Spoken Words of Spirit--May 4, 2011

Where do we find balance in our relationships with each other? This question is posed to you for a few reasons. First, it is vital to remind yourselves that you should never get lost in any union amongst people. While most will see this as a message about romantic bonds, what we are actually referring to goes well beyond that scope. It has more to do with your relationship with yourself; with how you treat the core of yourself and your soul. It has a lot to do with your reactions during times of disagreements, as well as during times that you are treated like royalty.

All people were created to be social in their actions throughout their lives. The structure that you set up is vital to the happiness received. Some of you look for a unique apparatus that signals that everything you do is right. It already exists! It is the gentle voice that is carried within. You only have to quiet your minds to listen to it; for the guidance comes from a Source much higher then anything you could imagine. There is a built-in relationship with God, no matter what name you use for Him. He will help to steer you towards your highest good, but it will be done with the awareness that most human beings will sabotage their own efforts to maximize the joy that awaits them. Love yourself! Learn that it is alright to step away from situations or people who are not healthy for your long-term balance.

Our suggestion; especially if we speak about matters of the heart, is to tell you that you should never force a situation to work. If it is meant to be in your best interest, then both parties would be in sync and not cause one or the other to be or feel hurt. To put it more succinctly, it is not always going to be worth your heartache if respect is not ALWAYS part of the equation. Time after time, we witness people trying to cling to, or have the ideal of being with someone when the separation was caused either by disinterest, disrespect, or because Spirit knows your plight in the future would have been more painful. Your angels often try to protect you from yourself. The hardest part in understanding this is that there will be couples who may seem perfect for each other, only to have an abrupt end come because of ingrained, belittling tapes being played out. Even the most revered people sometimes fight the inner demons that a life of addictive lessons can cause. Subsequently, they revert to behavioral aspects that can actually crush their loving partner.

During this era, the world is filled with people who are not trusting others. Anger continues to rail against peace, while the efforts of tolerant folks are scorned upon by those who only want disarray. All of this impacts your personal situations. Souls who travel across lands may give the appearance of being a refreshing, loving opportunity, but their values often compromise the reality of what could or should be. To simplify that, when pressures from varying experiences from one part of the world to another kick in, with the addition of patterns of learned family traits, it is then frequently seen that emotions will overrule common decency and love. People commonly fall back into “safe zones.”

After all we have shared, it is the relationship with your guardians and your Inner Child that is the most important. You will discover people to be something other than who they may have portrayed themselves to be. This does not mean what you had with them was a lie, but it does substantiate the need for you to trust the whispers within. You are always draped in radiant love by the King Child. That aspect never disappears, nor will it ever be tainted. Since the Child Within is a part of His being, then you will always have the strength and courage of the universe at your beck and call. These are The Spoken Words of Spirit.

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Interest has been high for our next event at the Courtyard Marriot, Ronkonkoma, NY, on May 13th! It will be getting even higher, as Internationally acclaimed motivational/inspirational speaker, author, television personality and host of Empowered Living Radio, Steve Maraboli, will be giving one of his rousing talks and then emcee the evening for Jim. Seating is limited, so don’t wait too long! Check the website for all details at www.JimFargiano.com. This will be another interactive evening where Jim will answer questions about communication with Spirit, as well as to bring messages from loved ones to as many people as time allows. A raffle will be included for a private reading with Jim at a later date and much more.

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