The Kindle link for the book is to the right of the message. For those of you who have a Nook, The Spoken Words of Spirit, is available there too. The link is at the bottom of the blog entry.
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Grieving the loss of loved ones is an individual emotion and concept. There are helpful ways to do this, but ultimately it is up to yourself as to how you would like to handle it. Looking in from the outside, there might be some people who think you should “just get over it” or others who “can’t believe you would move ahead so quickly.” Either way, they are not the one who is processing the emotions. Relax and release what you need to, but also do it knowing that whoever it is that you have lost would want you to take your life forward with love and freedom.
All people who are in the Light want nothing but happiness for you. It is their desire that peace always comes to you and your soul, since they are now experiencing that in depths that you can never fathom as an earthly figure. This is a life of adjustments. Any physical incarnation has always been deemed one of lessons in change, with the ability to grow stronger from the multitude of them that are given. If you think about it in those terms, it may help you to compartmentalize the emotions you have for those who have departed. On the upside, you have the knowledge that their souls are filled with an inner harmony that cannot be matched in your lifetime. That said, you can come close to it through repetitive actions that fall under the mountain of spiritual actions available to all people.
There is also grief that can come from the separation of a heart-mate. These situations are often unfair to one partner in the union. In most cases, you will find that pining and opining will not lead to a reunion, but instead do nothing but keep you on a treadmill of self-doubt and insecurities. You are worth so much more than that! Why not have the reassurance of your needs be met by realizing that people will always do unexpected things; often in unwanted or peculiar ways? The temperament of humans is such that what feels comfortable in the moment might not actually be the reality of the subconscious behaviors that run deeper in one or the other of you. Regardless, the process of letting go--especially when there is no closure or legitimate reasons for the separation--is such that you may be taken down an avenue of internal strife.
It is up to you to discern what you want for your future. Whether you have had someone pass into the realm of angels, or you have physically lost connections to someone, you are still the only force needed to make your present and future life joyful. Try not to dismiss the people who are still in your life who are looking to make you feel that you are truly something special. There are many of them. The fact is that all people have a certain prominence to their soul. You are included in that, thus you should not let the elevation into heaven by someone, or the release of a relationship by others become your downfall. Reach out and talk to anyone who can guide you through the rough patches. Always know that you are never looked upon by your teachers with scorn for the way you handle your personal losses. Those who make you feel that way are not the alignment you need at the moment. With love and compassion, these are The Spoken Words of Spirit.
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July 26th, 2011--Dinner Buffet at Villa Lombardi‘s in Holbrook, NY. Messages from the other side, and a motivational talk! Join internationally known medium/psychic, Jim Fargiano and best-selling author and inspirational speaker, Steve Maraboli, for an evening that will be filled with good things. Raffles for a FREE private reading, merchandise and more will be included. For tickets and information, go to www.JimFargiano.com! Tickets need to be purchased by 7/23 so we can give a fairly accurate headcount to Lombardi's
You can hear the interview I did on Empowered Living Radio by going to Steve’s website at www.empoweredlivingradio.com. The link is also on my website.
Check out our website at www.JimFargiano.com for the new inspirational magnets and the combo deal for The Spoken Words of Spirit book, Escaping Boundaries meditation CD and coffee mug! Upon request, all books will be personalized and autographed.
Please take a look at our first inspirational quote video and let me know what you think about it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBOpnHteU9s.
If you want to view other short quotes from Spirit, you can send a “friend request” to me on FaceBook. The link for the fan page is: http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Spoken-Words-of-Spirit/121058579500?ref=mf. A different inspirational quote can be found there.
The Nook link for my book is:
3 comments:
(Grieving the loss of loved ones is an individual emotion and concept. There are helpful ways to do this, but ultimately it is up to yourself as to how you would like to handle it.)
I have had this problem since my, beloved grandson Peter passed away a month ago. I cannot get it through my mind that he has gone.
This message puts it in perspective for me, as I read it through a few times. I realized my sadness cannot bring him back. So, I must move on for the others. Knowing, he is happy at last.
This is a life of adjustments. Any physical incarnation has always been deemed one of lessons in change, with the ability to grow stronger from the multitude of them that are given. If you think about it in those terms, it may help you to compartmentalize the emotions you have for those who have departed. On the upside, you have the knowledge that their souls are filled with an inner harmony that cannot be matched in your lifetime.
Thank you so much for these messages, Jim.
You are definitely,
our Angel On Earth.
God Bless you! :-)**
Mary,
I am so very sorry for your loss. sending you much love and hugs.
"This is a life of adjustments. Any physical incarnation has always been deemed one of lessons in change, with the ability to grow stronger from the multitude of them that are given."
Jim, this was an absolutely beautiful message and will bring much peace to many. Thank you just doesn't seem to be enough, so i am sending you thank yous to infinity and beyond! :) xoxo
Mary and Diane, both of you are very special. I felt like this message hit on many topics, but seemed to be done so by giving everyone the ability to understand it so that it can help soothe them in only a way that meshes for them. The concise wording runs much deeper, as each of you have experienced.
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